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How to Say No and Accept No in a Gentle Way
In Desire, our book is the sexual staircase. Everyone actually is familiar with the sexual staircase if you've been raised in this culture. There's very much a focus on heteronormative, cisnormative, penile vaginal intercourse and typically orgasms for a person with a penis through that intercourse. That doesn't work for a lot of folks. And so we talk a lot in the book about starting to break free from the sexual staircase by thinking more openly about what are all the different types of sex that you might enjoy.