Exploring the complexities of falling for someone who rejects you, the chapter delves into the world of limerence and how distance can fuel fantasies. Through Sasha's letter, the episode discusses her confusion about her connection with a dismissive avoidant man focused on healing, and her yearning for a secure attachment despite his aversion.
Your mind plays tricks on you when you fall in love with a long-distance loner who says flat out they don’t want a relationship. This absent character, present only as an electronic voice or a digital image but never as a real person at your side who loves you -- ican be the perfect blank canvas for lament fantasies. “If only we could be together…” that’s what the limerent thinks, never doing the math to understand that the person clearly, openly strongly tells you that will never happen. In this video I respond to a letter from a woman who obsesses on an avoidant man, but who is actually avoiding their life?
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