The Power of Attachment

The teaching that they've given me is we work on ourselves so we can help the people closest to us. By helping by the time you've gotten to the point where like, all right, I think I'm ready to help...you might notice that the people you are wanting to help have actually done anything. You're creating ripples by just working on yourself. And also the other thing that can happen is the projection of some broken part of you. So if you think you love that person, you don't actually love that person because you can't even see them.