How Can You Develop Relational Sex Connections?

She doesn't report having any kind of healthy sex life without that fantasy. How do you develop those kinds of connections that take one beyond their fixations? You know, it's a looking at sex as an integrated part of your life and finding other coping mechanisms using different forms of distraction or mindfulness. She'd be such a great candidate for a sex positive therapist who can help her process so much of the pain that she's experienced.