The Name of the Husband of Joseph Smith

Melissa Lot all throughout her life in multiple places acknowledges that she was a plural wife of Joseph Smith. She's one of the two women along with Eliza Snow who informs Andrew Jensen of the of a large chunk of the plural wives names. The fact that the parents are sealed on the same day that's important is because Joseph Smith has a practice where he will trade eternal salvation for parents like his friends he or Kimball for their daughter right?