You Can See It, but You Can't Really Name It

Narcissism can be a lot more obscure than we think, right? I want to have a really bright line between this and the other kinds of narcissism. Austom feels in the right, like they're right, you're wrong. But when they really see that they're in the wrong, they feel guilt. They don't actually intend to hurt people. They just don't always see the hurt that they're creating because they think they kind of move on. Where a malignant noise actually intentionally creates harm, the vindictiveness cannot be where it gets scare.