How Do I Disassociate?

The person who wrote is like, how do I disassociate? Well, I can't give you that answer because I think he is the one that has to do the work here. But as he does what I just suggested, you're going to feel more free to be yourself and even more free to reach out to him. As you see him doing the work and you seeing his changes and you see him just being happy and independent and feeling good about himself it's going to be attractive to you. You're supporting someone else's happiness. Even though he's on this path that doesn't necessarily make him happy, but he's going to discover that happiness as he works on himself and