I'm Not Jewish. I've Been to Jewish Weddings, but I Don't Know.

i was raised jewish but i have not been a practising member of the faith. My wife is not jewish, she's an Irish catholic and we looked it up. If idon't know why i'm doing it, i'm not gong to do it. Everybody does it, but why? Ye. There's no single straight answer. By the way, go ahead, i encourage you to gutter some of them.