The Dichotomy of Control Is So Important

The book is about the need to document what's happening and also to document when you know that happened. The bully wants to set up a station in someone's head, where they're thinking about work when it's not work,. When they're with family or at their son's soccer game on the weekend whatever it might be. Matt: We can't even know what's being said about us in certain social situations but it sure is how I'm not going to help us to worry about that. All right, I got a lot of questions from the audience so let's take two or three before we run out. One actually just relates to whether you think that it bully recognizes a particular type