Do You Have a Personality?

Hank: I am totally a social chameleon. When i'm with one group of people, i act the way tat they do. And i feel like i just try and fulfil people's expectations. We got another question. It's from dao who asks, dear hank, and whenever i hang out with friends, i act in a certain way. But when i'm with a different group of friends, i kind of notice that i act very differently from how i am with my other friends. How does any one truly, quote, be themselves?