How Are You Complicit in Creating the Condition You Don't Want?

Darren Hardy: When faced with a problem, our first tendency is to blame. Blame keeps us from seeing ways that we can alter our behavior and achieve the outcome you desire. You are responsible for all of the outcomes in your life. Neglect means not doing what it takes to make a situation better. That is what you did you didn't do. And that is why your results are limited or why you find yourself in this satisfactory situation. The next part of the sentence is called complicit. How are you complicit in creating the condition you don't want?