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The Secret To Attracting True Love That Lasts - Dating Expert Matthew Hussey

Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal

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Dropping the Handkerchief

A lot of people feel like they need that like 30 miles an hour to get going. So that became my version for people of dropping the handkerchief is ask a very small and easy favor of someone and then allow that to be the bridge to an actual conversation. That I guess is fairly somewhat similar to the whole indirect openers that guys will often use around such as, Hey, can you tell me where the nearest coffee shop is or something like that? It's just a way of prompting a conversation in a way that's not something like, Hi, I thought you were pretty and I wanted to talk to you which takes a large amount of almost too much confidence.

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