In most marriages now, the woman is more educated than the man. We've just passed that historical tipping point for black couples. College educated american women are the most likely to get married. And i don't think it's because they're socialized into it or feeling they have to. I think thy'rechoosing it because of the kids,. They know that pooling incomes and family stability are a way to help their kids succeed. The same is not true for working class families and poorer families, where marriage has really declined very sharply.