What Is the Quinte Pencial Question?

A six year old boy with eigh d h d, who's great when he gets to do what he wants. When i ask him to do something like a chore or picking up something, he says no and then escalates into calling you id idiotic. He often apologizes later for his own behavior when he comes down. But it's not a solution to coping at the time that it happens. So now comes the big question, if we're bocking at doing something that we don't want to do, we're not just going along with the plan.