It's clear to me you do need a lifetime to be a great parent. Some people t have the opportunity to start over and get a second set of young children to practise on. But most of us just do the best we can that one set of times with unfortunately, the children are all different. It seems like a cruel trick. What works with one doesn't work with the next. Each one's unique. Even then, when they're your own with the same share genetic make up with your spouset, does get it that much easier because they're all another draw from the urn. Ah. O, i find that incredibly poignant, a tragic. A lot of what