This week, Dr. Corey chats with Sam Jolman, a fellow counselor and the author of The Sex Talk You Never Got.  We talk about the importance of sensuality and play in sex and relationships.

We emphasize the need for men to slow down, savor the moment, and engage their senses in order to fully experience pleasure and intimacy. And we also highlight the role of playfulness in sex, suggesting that couples should approach it as a form of play rather than a task.

By cultivating a sense of awe and prioritizing pleasure, couples can create a more fulfilling and enjoyable sex life.

Learn more about Sam here - https://www.samjolman.com/

Takeaways

Sensuality and sexuality are not the same, but they overlap. Sensuality is about engaging the senses and experiencing pleasure in various aspects of life.
Men often struggle with slowing down and savoring the moment due to societal expectations of productivity and task-oriented behavior.
Sex should be approached as a form of play, allowing for exploration, pleasure, and delight.
Creating space for playfulness and sensuality in everyday life can enhance the overall quality of relationships and sexual experiences.
Prioritizing pleasure and embracing a sense of awe can lead to a more fulfilling and enjoyable sex life.

On the Xtended Version ...

We keep the conversation going and explore the impact of religious and cultural influences on sexuality and relationships. We challenge the notion of purity as the goal of sexuality and highlight the importance of pleasure and reverence in sexual experiences.

The conversation also addresses the objectification of women and the pressure on men to conform to societal expectations. It emphasizes the need for self-respect, respect for others, and the integration of sensuality in healthy ways.

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