The stuff you've been saying reminds me of nonviolent communication. Do you want to talk about that for a moment? Like how it connects or doesn't connect to what you're saying? I use a bunch of different frameworks and NVC is one that I know a bit about, but it's not what I'm most expert in. So when I read the NVC book, I was like, oh yeah, this is, this all makes sense. This is very, very similar.
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Why is most communication advice so fluffy? How can we actually communicate better? Why do we sometimes fail to say what we mean or what needs to be said? What counts as "nonviolent" communication? To what extent is avoidance of conflict and confrontation a result of agreeableness versus cowardice? What aspects of divorce aren't talked about enough?
Misha Glouberman helps people communicate and connect better. He teaches a course called How to Talk to People About Things, online and in person, that helps people get better outcomes in their most important conversations at work and at home. He is an expert facilitator and designer of online and in-person events. He hosts the Trampoline Hall Lectures in Toronto, and is the co-author, with Sheila Heti, of The Chairs Are Where The People Go. He does lots of online events, so join his email list to learn more about them.
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