The Four Turn Offs of Vulnerability in Relationships

When i was able to speak vulnerably with my partner, other aspects of my life started to open up related to this. That unlocked some steps till i will cool out of this loneliness trap. The fourth turn off is when he uses vulnerability to manipulate. And so when vulnerabilitys uses a tool for something else, right? To maybe guilt someone into doing something that you want,. Using it to secure sex, like, i'm sad, i'm lonely. Can we have sex? You know, like it would feel better if if we could have sex. Or to seduce some one into trusting you.