Most people, most adults in particular, children can be a little more naive and, and easier to photograph because of that. Most adults are worried about things like their hair or do they look fat? And so my job is to make them feel comfortable. It's akin to being a good hostess, a good leader. If you're confident and you set the tone that you know what you're doing and that they're in good hands then they open up to you. But for someone like Sheryl Sandberg, or if you were to say, do a portrait of me or someone else's family, or it will come to your own family in a minute, do the tell them to