Trit well, it's not most of the battle, but it is the single most important thing that you have to put into your in your tool box of strategies. You know, i guess the other thing is to recognize and correct for our innate tribalism, right? We always, is a very natural human thing to divide people into teams, our team and the other team, and to conceptualize things as a competition. If somehow you can recognize when that happens and correct for it, if even with people you deeply, deeply disagree with, you can have an attitude of mutual learning,. then you'll be fine. But ultimately, i think the people don't do that enough either.