The Importance of Owning Up to Sex

Vanessa is all about herself yeah that was terrible. She definitely has cringe moments also they're sexual encounter well first off you can tell from Vanessa that she views sex in like these different planes because they finger she fingered her but then later on when we when she's trying to get from Zander like how far they got she's like did you have sex with your mouth so she obviously doesn't view fingering is that big of a deal. I do wonder what it would have looked like for Ray to be with someone who was steadier than Vanessa and less forceful than Lexi Because I know the way that Ray has these deep insecurities about whether she's lovable and Vanessa is