Aristotle's Deconstruction Is a Stage Two Culture

In stage one most of us are self-righteous we think we know way more than we actually know. Then comes reconstruction stage three as you rebuild a world view based on the best wisdom of previous generations billions of people have done life before us. We don't need to destroy our lives and wreck our marriages and harm our bodies just because we want to find out for ourselves other people have made those mistakes if we will humble ourselves then we can be spared so much pain right?