The Holy Spirit Convicts You of Sin

In John 16, verse eight, the holy spirit convicts us of sin. When we claim to be in christ and you feel no conviction like none what you feel with gas, that's a problem. This is why i don't know how anybody could want to be married to somebody who does not ove jesus. But who convicts the carnal man? Who convicts the wretched woman?Who convict yo ouhtot wan to talk to me?