When people talk about self love and they talk about their fulfill and are happy i know for a fact they're full of shit bro. A lot of these idealistic people on the internet are predators which is why they convince people that to somehow pay them for shit or buy their books or whatever but that they should just stay where the fuck they are. The reason this strategy makes people money is because people are perfectly comfortable not doing any work all right so we have to understand that as you go through the process and as you make mistakes your potential expands on the back end  which means your potential does is not a static point it's a sliding scale. What if what if everybody in the world