The Relationship Between Perfectionism and the Fear of Failure

Some parents feel that their m kids resistance, or perhaps lack of ation, actually comes from a perfectionist tendencies. I've done a lot of work with kids who are referred to as twice exceptional,. Kids who might have a d h t, an gifted in talentedness. So i think it's a matter of saying to these kids, what's your expectation? What would a finished product look like for you when you close your eyes and imagine this task completed? And then pick one or two of those characteristics and say, let's knock those off. Let's start out slowly.