How Much of That Do You Feel When You're Doing These Talks?

i learned this from carl rogers as well because rogers was very interested he's a clinician very interested in the idea of something like psychophysiological integrity. He believed that if you were having a conversation with someone that was therapeutic and so it was treading this thin line of truth then you were sort of lined up physically and mentally all of you was pointing in the same direction. You could feel when there was disharmony and that was a sign that you weren't being genuine and i've had students report this to me too. listen to what you're saying and if it makes you weak stop saying it and you can feel it.