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How to Avoid Heuristics in Relationships
If someone is raising their voice, they're the one who did it. Whoever yells first is often like, what's going on with you? These are all personal heuristics that I notice come up in my life. Charlie yells every type, every fight. No, I don't. Because I know that that is a thing that if I do, and I am realizing that it actually, in some of my more recent relationships, has been the thing that is needed, not in it. If someone is says they are hurt, they have been harmed by you. That can be abused,. which is anytime we get into sensitive territory, out you're hurting me, can become don't