How Do You Tell Someone You Have an S T I?

A lot of guys are waiting to hear the answer to is, how do you tell someone you have an s t i? How do you present it. Do you bring it up at dinner? Do you tell them before you even go on a date together? There's two schools of thought around that type of disclosure. As a woman, what would you want from the other person? What's important to you? You don't like verbally vomit all of your story all in one sitting kind of thing. That would be off pudding for most people. But nobody puts everything out on the table, or at least not usually.