Helms: I've learned to accept is that it's okay in that moment, because I'm not always like the on the spot person. And this is true of if someone says something inappropriate, or it's just a comment in a meeting that you're thinking about days later and say "I could have handled that better with Harry" It also helps me with my whole, like I'm pretty petty. So whenever I do that to people on purpose, I really like it. Because it's a socially acceptable way of handling a difficult situation without actually confronting someone or after to get in there. Helms: You can rip these organizations, but you know, maybe not the right place with