How to Talk to Your Real Friend Separately

i feel like if you all are really friends, then you should be able to have that kind of private one and one conversation. Your real friend does not want you to feel bad, because she is happy in her relationship. And so i would take her aside, i would talk to her like that, em separately. If i didn't feel strong enough to have that conversation one on one, then every time she talked about her man, i would just have to be like really conscious with reminding myself that, like, this is not an attack on me and my feelings. I'm but, i don't know, i think, aside from those two things, you're pretty much in a