Is There a Theory of Attachment Style?

Anxious and avoidant people usually end up together. If a friend's presence in your life makes you sad or happy, that's a problem. Avoidant people don't date each other because they want to make the first day sire on the first day. Secure people tend to pair off with secure people really quickly,. They go, I have another secure person who can cut through all of this anxious stuff for them.