The Zen Master, Bancai, Says, Don't Side With Yourself

At a certain point, you know, when I was feeling my own suffering in this intense situation, and also just the suffering that I felt in the room. And there were a lot of intense views. And I just kept thinking, I am seeing this so clearly. I'm seeing other people's understand this. It became much easier to understand other people's points of view. That's why they feel this way, because they're perceiving it in a particular way.