In the book, there are several versions of what happened between Dana and Vanessa. In each case, it was a different choice made by Dana that led to her daughter's behavior. But in all cases, Vanessa's life takes that same turn - she blames herself for it. If you don't blame yourself no matter what your actions were, then you aren't the cause.

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