Speaker 2
Oh, and that's the night you meet again. So since you started a relationship, basically you meet this person one time? No,
Speaker 1
I flew there and then she flew here. Two? Yes. But when she flew here to Taiwan, stayed for more than a month. Wow more than a month.
Speaker 2
Yes In Kaushan in Taiwan in China in
Speaker 1
Taiwan in Taipei in
Speaker 2
China in Taipei. Yeah, or you was the tourist guy actually
Speaker 1
We together went to Hualien in Taitung. Oh
Speaker 2
I think about that long distant relationship we prepared us some brass bone reacts. So I think it's now the time to listen to everybody that people... the Bros -Bond react. Because this is the section that you are waiting for. Bros -Bond reacts! I
Speaker 1
think whether long -distance relationship works or not. Yes, of course you can. Me and my first love. We dated long -distance relationship for three years Taipei to
Speaker 2
Kaohsiung and now we are married for five years. That is the thing. It's like if it's in your country, it's still considered a long -distance relationship. Yes.
Speaker 1
If you see this way, Taipei to Kaohsiung is even further away from Kaohsiung to Korea. It's more far? Very close to get well if you drive then Taipei to Kaohsiung is like at least four hours, but you can't drive to here to Korea So yeah, if you take a flight, it's like time wise time wise. Okay, if you take a flight from Kaohsiung
Speaker 2
to Taipei how long is? I? Don't know like two hours two hours when I was in a half I don't know I've never taken a flight domestically and how is the flight to
Speaker 1
Caution to Korea to Korea two hours and a half two hours and a half. Yes, it's not bad. So to me it's not even a distance If my girlfriend lives in Canada, whoa, it is hell is hell afar And I think the most important part is is not much of time difference. Yes They're only one hour earlier.
Speaker 2
So when I was in Peru about yeah, it's really tough some time. Yeah, I mean I In my relationship with my wife. Mm -hmm. Have a one period my wife returned to Taiwan Was so heavy because usually when it's morning here is night there. Yeah, so Joe exactly opposite We have a 13 hour to different. Yes, so it's like I need to call her like a... or my really late night or my really early early morning. Mm -hmm. So yeah, I was like a little tough, but actually Korea to here is not really big.
Speaker 1
So yeah, to me, it's not even considered long -distance relationship. Because I... So
Speaker 2
if you don't consider it your, like it's Taiwan, Korea, is you don't consider it long -distance relationship. Yeah. Why you consider it
Speaker 1
Kaohsiung Taipei long -distance relationship? No, no, no. I mean like... So to me, to a lot of people, Kaohsiung Taipei is already long -distance, but to me, it's not. Uh -huh. Well,
Speaker 2
I consider it, I see my point of view of one person who comes from Peru. If you have one relationship in Taiwan, it's not a long distance relationship. Because Taiwan is so developed. I love that part of Taiwan. Taiwan, you can take one high speed train now and you can stay in two hours in the north. And then you come back the same day. So it's amazing. I love that. That is an I love Taiwan. Next
Speaker 1
question. If only you love that person a lot. Of course you can. So I broke up with my ex long distance. Although we broke up at the end. The reason of breaking up had nothing to do with distance.
Speaker 2
Usually when you have long distance relationship, that is space situation of the space thing is not a problem. I mean that you are in Taiwan, I'm in Korea or something like that. Or I'm in Peru, you're in Taiwan. No, the problem is that trolls. The problem is that
Speaker 2
maybe some guys in Latin America is a lot of guys they have a one girlfriend in Canada and another two different in Peru another
Speaker 2
you see what is one long distant relationship is a relationship for four mm -hmm that's the reason why and sometimes the Latinos are going to the nightclub and sometimes yeah so they are dancing flirting be be bad bad and me
Speaker 1
I'm just doing SRT yeah yeah I'm just translating I think okay this person said as long as you're rich as
Speaker 2
long as you're rich, yes. Yes. I think the only thing that can make more better your long distance relationship is the morning. Because you can check out an airplane every holiday, every weekend and you can see this person. Or you can ask this person, you want to come here to watch me? Okay, come. And I pay the ticket and you can, or you can have your pre -baked jet and you can go, pew, pew. Yeah.
Speaker 1
Well, yes, but no. I mean, of course, if you have money, that's gonna make everything easier, but I don't have a lot of money. But I still try, within my mind, means to make it work. So let's say, for example, I take cheap as really late hour red -eye flights, or I booked the type not even Airbnb it's like really tiny like probably like like this and you you you sleep but then with a desk right above you you know that kind of like you still find a way and that one night pay probably only take like 300 400 new dollars yeah but that things can be more easy with money. Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, money obviously is going to make everything easier, of course. But if you don't have it, I don't think you have to have money to
Speaker 2
make it. You don't think it's a limitation. Yes. But of course, it's a plus.
Speaker 1
Yes, nobody's gonna say no to money, right? Okay, so this person says, I also feel like it's doable. I also feel like it's doable. I also feel like it's doable. I feel like it's doable. I feel like it's doable. I feel like it's doable. I feel like it's doable. I feel like it's doable. I feel like it's doable. I feel, it's doable. Yeah. I'm a Latino. If you love that person enough, it's doable. You make impossible possible. Okay. So this person says, I'm okay with long distance love, but seems not everyone is okay with that. I have been working with the Chinese government for a long time. I have been working with the Chinese government for a long time. I Chinese government for a long time. I have been working with the time. I have been working with the Chinese government for a long time. I have been working with the Chinese government for a long time. I have been working with the I have been working with the time. I have been working with the Chinese government for a long time. I have Chinese government for a long time. I have been working with the have been working with the Chinese government for a long
Speaker 2
very to the most important thing. That's the reason we love to dance We love to express and we are really touchable person So if one Latino have a one relationship long distance relationship with you, you really appreciate he's making that big effort because for us spend one night With your phone that your phone is not done. warm as a person, don't have the feeling to kiss somebody. It's difficult for us, so difficult. We need to feel that person, we need to wake up and see her eyes, kiss her lips. So that is the reason for me, it's not work. For me, no work. No, no, no, no. Zero, zero possibility. Because I know myself. I know what is my limitation. I just thought
Speaker 1
of a really interesting question. So you came all the way from Peru to Taiwan. You dropped everything, right? Just for your wife. Now you came to Taiwan, you adapt, you started a new life. What if today your wife got a brilliant job opportunity in Singapore? Are you going to do the same, drop everything and fly
Speaker 2
to Singapore with her? No. Maybe it's a really long distant process. I mean now it's my wife, it's not my girlfriend. So for some people this is just a paper but for me this represent Eternity for the rest of my life. I'm going to be with her if she need to move to another country We need to go in the process. Why because one thing is you go work here work there and you do your business Then you can return home have a lot of, a lot of positivity, how to manage that. You never need to stock in one problem. When you stock in the problem, you don't see the whole possibilities and the whole solution. It's difficult to go and work in another country. It's really difficult. It is. So I can wish the best to my wife if she had the opportunity and we can work in the process. If she not, we have our home here. So it's a safe place. And if she's going super good, for example, now she starts to get like a millions and millions of dollars every month. So she probably is really rich. I didn't worry about anything, just go there. But if it's not, it's like, yeah, I need to think about, we need to think about that. Because it's starting a new life there. is mean start from zero yes so start from zero is difficult it's really brave that's the thing so
Speaker 1
yeah I think it's it's all about commitment it's like as fancy as you might sound you still need to realistically plan out whether that's really doable or not. And for me, let's say hypothetically, if my girlfriend is never going to long live in Taiwan, this is me. the ability to live my life maybe possibly in Korea and the first step is getting to know the language and the culture. So that's what I'm doing right now but I'm not you know... I'm not gonna be like when people say, ah don't distance never work. I'm not gonna be defensive. I'm not gonna get all worked up and say, nah of course it's gonna work. What if it really doesn't work? So I'm not saying that, well I'm telling everyone that I have a girlfriend right now and this is forever or something like that. But I'm focusing on the present time. Right now, I love her. She loves me. Together we're working on it. And whether it will work out or not, I guess we will see.