You Don't Uphold Your Boundaries

I fall into that trap all the time because I'm looking for external validation like I don't want that guy to think poorly of me sure. So I'll just do it. But then the ironic thing is you actually end up thinking poorly of me because I don't uphold my boundaries. Most communication is nonverbal 85 plus percent. The way you behave and you kind of hinted at it earlier about teaching your kids this because I said so nonsense or do what I say not what I do. Man that's never going to fucking work. That's that's that is the weakest form of leadership is to just tell people what to do and not live that life yourself.