The Importance of Identity in Lesbians

"I take a very flexible view on identity and I don't think that other people should be able to define it," he says. "Just because she wants to suck a cock doesn't mean that she's not a lesbian, but it does mean that in order for this to happen, we have to not just teach her a behavior." 'It's impossible to talk about these concepts of identity without offending somebody,' the author adds.