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84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade

Modern Anarchy

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The Importance of Mindfulness in Leadership

I worry that some of the community dynamics and like, you know, polyamory or open relationships can actually reinforce perfectionism and shame. If we believe in consent, we cannot judge people for being monogamous. I don't want to create a new like a new society in which you're bad if you're an algorithm, we just flip it. You can have deep, meaningful, connective experiences in polyamory. It's true that monogamy is tied to a set of private property based social relations that we want to dismantle. And so like in our society, like choosing not to be monogamous is countercultural and can feel like liberation to people in particular ways because it's

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