Is Your Partner Trying to Change Something That Is Detrimental to You?

We have to recognize that there's a big difference between dealing with some one who has a drinking problem, or someone who's flirting. You're asking this person to change something about themselves that is very personal to them,. That really doesn't affect you, right? So we' got to be careful, because there are people out there that want to change the way their partners look. For me, what changed the tide for me is when i realized that what was wrong in my relationship that this person refused to acknowledge, meant something very serious.