Like a skill, traits can be nurtured and developed as well. You do something hard for a period of time that has an outcome. The universe does not have a definitive date for one day. Don't say one day you're going to go see Europe with the family because then one day never comes. And before you know what, you're old and decrepit. If you can set a date, even if that date has to be so far outSo that you could mentally prepare and inspire yourself and motivate yourself by doing it.