Sally Kohn: In your book, you say that formulas for success satisfy the popular craving for heroes but they also mislead. She says we're seeing only the survivors, not the failures who took the bullets to their engine and never returned home. The aspiring entrepreneur who moved to Silicon Valley to pursue a startup only to fail doesn't make the cover of fast company,. And success stories also dis down the role of luck.Kohn: I think like the copy and pasting is so ingrained. We're wired to conform in many ways. But part of it is what the education system teaches, right?