Benson: I think the biggest lesson I could have given my younger self is that no one else knows what they're doing and everyone else is just as insecure as you are. We spent so much of our lives caring so much what everyone else thinks until one day we realized the no one was ever thinking about us at all. "I've actually been following daddy issues since I was like 19 years old," says Benson, who has a massive online presence but still an online presence. 'Almost adulting' episodes air every Tuesday and Thursday on iReport.com/soulmatestories.