The Relationship Choreography of Conversations

I suspect that you have a self-selection issue right I mean there are people like you and me yeah. People who are a little bit more interested run a little bitMore liberal and a little bitmore 40s to 50ish they sort of they've had alittle bit more experience with what civic glue looks like in this kind of form but we pretty much refuse to let that be the end of it how do you structure the conversation so you get five conservatives and five liberals around the table we get a talk about race relations in America? It's not a rumble what are free for all presumably that you have moderator who actually starts throwing out topics and listening to people away in it's about