It’s our last episode of Summer School, and today we welcome back clinical psychologist (and “clinical cousin” of Hugh and Josh), James van Cuylenburg.

In this episode, James tells us EVERYTHING we need to know about our relationships… well almost everything…there’s a lot to cover.

From attachment styles, to breaking trust, to learning how to own your feelings and navigating coupledom through life’s changing seasons.

Getting into the nitty gritty, Hugh asks James about intimacy and what happens when you’re not…. having any. And how to start a conversation with your kids about pornography.

Relationships make life worth living and whether they’re with an intimate partner, a friend, or yourself, they should be cherished and treated with care.

James, we thank you for your guidance.

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If you would like to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - https://bit.ly/3WwDguJ

🎧Things to listen to

James’ new podcast (that he makes with ANOTHER van Cuylenburg) You’re a Good Kid - https://apple.co/3E54MZR
James van Cuylenburg - Love Your Wonky Bricks - https://apple.co/3UYXmgt
Esther Perel - Let’s Be Better Lovers - https://apple.co/3Af9OB6
Chanel Contos - Consensual Healing - https://bit.ly/3RNKpEm

📖 Things to read

Attached by Dr Amir Levine and Rachel S.F Heller M.A - https://amzn.to/3EeVDhe

💻Things to check out

Teach Us Consent Website - https://bit.ly/3QVhlK0
Three Sided Pillar (triangle of happiness) - https://bit.ly/42kntmc

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