I Think the Fundamental Capacity Is the Ability to Just Be Present With Others

It seems to me that the fundamental capacity is the ability to just be present with other people. And and in that way, you're your being authentic and honest and how you show up. There's no attempt to do anything. I think this difference between being, which is the kind of nondual state, versus doing a kind of egoic, proper solving, planning and od you have goals, i think that's what to play here.