The Power of Gentleness

Sometimes you just have to have the courage to be the brave one. I think again, like we have to reorient our minds from, it's not about sobriety. It's about intimacy and intimacy and control cannot take up the same space. Everything my husband says a lot to me is that as long as we have like a controlling outlook on our sexuality, we cannot experience intimacy. And if I'm in this place, at least I'm safe, but like freedom is encountering affection again and it's encountering pleasure again.