When Mary is running emotional deficits that John doesn't resonate with. It can be difficult for John to understand the lengths to which Mary will go to address her emotional deficits. If you don't have the same emotional need as that other person it can be hard to understand why they would be willing to risk so much for what appears to be something fairly trivial. To the person running the emotional deficit it's not trivial.

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