Most workplaces expect that women may likely bear some child caring responsibility at some point. But it seems like workplaces aren't making the assumption that women are going to have these responsibilities and certainly aren't preparing for these cases. One of the top things that people need is often that as needs or emergency care in the sense that if I really need to, can I take the time off? Because often what you find yourself in is a situation where it's unpredictable.
Caring for sick or elderly family members is still mostly women’s work, according to research. The emotional labor and unpredictability of this work takes a heavy toll on caregivers; it impacts our wellbeing, finances, and careers. And while companies have gotten better about acknowledging and accommodating childcare, many could offer more support and flexibility to their employees taking care of adults.
We talk with Anne Bardoel about what the research says about women and eldercare. She’s been through it herself, and she offers strategies to cope with the negative effects like exhaustion, isolation, and depression. She also gives advice to employees and managers on how to start conversations about caregiving commitments. Then, we hear from a woman who was thrust into caring for her parents and in-laws a lot sooner than she expected.
Our HBR reading list:
“No One Should Have to Choose Between Caregiving and Work,” by Jody Gastfriend
“Caring for Your Company’s Caregivers,” by Sarita Gupta and Ai-jen Poo
“Making Caregiving Compatible with Work,” by Nanette Fondas
Email us: womenatwork@hbr.org
Our theme music is Matt Hill’s “City In Motion,” provided by Audio Network.