Struggling With Standards?

Seril: I've been with my girl friend for about a year now, and i've never felt such a strong connection to someone. She might be attractive, but she's not, you know, a beauty. And your friends think that you could be with somebody who's prettier than her. Is physical chemistry the first and most important part of a real relationship? Sincerely, struggling with standards. seril: You're right for asking this question, and that it's an important one. It's really the question is, are we both moving in together? Did we decide that together? Are we going to make decisions mutually, rather than me having to kind of drag you along