How to Get Out of a Tar Pit of High Conflict

In one area alone, scientists have uncovered more than three million bones. There are skeletons of over two thousand sable toothed tigers. Right next to the tigers were group slots western horses, bison, dwarf pronghorn and prehistoric camels. Preditors would show up on the scene and then get stuck in the same space. Once they were in, they could not get out. And we are pretty much like them. We are stuck in a tarpit of high conflict. For us, standing on the outside, there's a sense of bafflement. How could the situation get so out of control? We're completely confused. We just can't see what the other side