Oggan: I know all the good stuff comes from the break ups and and the losing the job, and the humiliations. But that's not where the growth is, for sure. He says when he was handing out fliers in new york city, a for the club near the comedy cellar, you looked at him,. nodded me, nodded and smiled. And now here i am saying, thank you for that - cause your, you're out there like it's the loneliest place in the world., Oggan said.